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positivity, hype-enby 

just so you know -- I will be your personal hype-enby. If I see apost a selfie you damn well believe I'm going to like it. And I might comment on it telling you how awesome you are or what a great photo it is.

Got yourself down? I'll tell you how awesome you are.

Feel like you're not good at a thing? I'll tell you how great you are at the thing, and how wonderful it is that you are getting better at the thing every day.

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transphobia bs shitpost 

me *does something feminine*
wow are you sure you're nonbinary? you seem to love being a girl :)

me *rejects something feminine*
wow are you sure you're nonbinary? looks like internalized misogyny to me :)

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It's not a choker, a necklace, or a bit of kink cosplay for the sake of the club. When I wear this collar, it's for fucking religious reasons. It's advance worship for the Master I hope to meet one day. It's a symbol of who and what I am, and I wear it with the utmost hope and pride.

One day.

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Hey I found an open source menstrual cycle tracking app called Drip that doesn't call home to anyone and encrypts your data on your device. It's gender inclusive and it has a prebuilt version Android that you can get either on F-Droid or on their site here:

They have an iOS version but it's not pre compiled. I'll be working on that today so you can get loaded onto your Apple devices, along with the instructions to install it on said Apple device.

Please boost so others can see this!

nsfw, horny on main, submission, anal 

... and I can't tell you how hot that is. Right now I'm feeling horny, and as though that horniness has been forced on me because every move I make my prostate is being nudged.

That blend of frustration, powerlessness, horniness, and obedience is such a potent hormonal cocktail.

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nsfw, horny on main, submission, anal 

If J doesn't have an opinion (He usually doesn't) I'll choose one of the three plugs we have to wear for anywhere from 2-4 hours in the afternoon or evening on these days. Sometimes though, like today, he has an opinion. "You should use the big one today"...

so sometimes I get the very submissive pleasure of having to do something that isn't what I would've chosen for myself.


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nsfw, horny on main, submission, anal, mh 

J and I are looking at major life changes for both of us in the coming months, so we're experimenting with some more rigid rules of behavior for my submission.

One of them is that on alternating days I spend at least a couple hours with a butt plug in me. I have some hang-ups about playing with my butt, but I enjoy it and want to get through them. So consistent enforced plugging.

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Nsfw | Dom/sub 

Why is it that subs look so much cuter when you can tell their brain is off and they're melting in the pleasure. Like head empty, drony little sub just waiting to follow orders and be handled. The pinnacle of human sexiness and desire is just a cute obedient toy waiting to have their head filled with nasty little notions of servitude.
:devious_horns: :collar: :leash:

frustration, emotional trubulence 

I'm full of frustration and anger. and Disappointment. And a feeling of being disenfranchised.

All of it.

Something that I'm realizing is a real struggle for me is that I just don't understand singular emotions. I don't know that I ever feel a single way about something. My emotions are complex webs of feeling, thought, and nuance. Saying something like "I'm mad" or "I'm sad" has always felt like a lie in my mouth. It's just not descriptive enough

Hot take, pol, anti capitalism, 

Maybe the sprawl and lack of federation for communication platforms is an effective method of preventing/hampering organizing of a general strike

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star trek canon/fanon, question? 

Hey friends. just out of curiosity, is there canon on why Starfleet is primarily human-led? There are members of the federation who have been space-faring longer than earthlings.

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apparently when people complained to the Public Universal Friend about the androgyny of their dressing style, their response was "I am not accountable to mortals". Like Garrisson Davis notes, trans culture hasn't aged a day

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Nsfw | pun | 

Refering to pet names from now on as: "subtitles."

Horny on main, submission, tfw, chastity, mild cnc 

That submissive feeling when you've taken your chastity device off to shower, and you get out of the shower and see it sitting there, and you realize you absolutely do not want to put it back on, but you know you're going to. Because sometimes submission is about obedience even contrary to your own desire.

DND, Epic DM Trolling, Advanced 

Our party just spent an entire session planning for the party to take a 3 week break that we all had already decided we were *not* taking a break because we have a limited time to make use of a wild-magic effect our Witch got hit with in the last dungeon.

At the end of the session, just as the DM is ending things. "Wait. we need to get drunk tonight."

Cue massive upheaval of the last 2 hours of planning :D

nsfw, horny on main, submission, kink, psa 

this psa was brought to you by the hundreds of people who've given me a complex about asking for what I want because that's topping from the bottom and not really 'submitting'

I submit. I give my dominant every tool he could ask for to ensure my obedience. I confess what turns me on. I let him know what forms of punishment will change my behavior, and what type of treatment will effectively manipulate me.

That's enthusiastic consent.

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nsfw, horny on main, submission, kink, erotica 

There's always somebody talking about *real* submission, or *real* dominance, or opining about how everyone else is doing *it* wrong.

I do believe there are *wrong* ways to do Dominance and submission. The wrong ways mostly involve lack of consent or denial of information that is needed to inform consent.

But me, begging for my partner to tie my hands behind my back and make me go down on them while telling me what a slut I am isn't one of them.

work, management, psa 

It's more your job than theirs. But they need to help you out. Let them know what you need from them and why you need it.

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work, management, psa 

Hey managers, here's a PSA for you:

Give your team members every chance to succeed. This means telling theme explicitly what success looks like and giving them the tools and information they need.

I'm not talking about technical stuff now. Most of you know that your team members need the right tools.

But they also need information on the political landscape. It sucks, but a big part of the job (both yours and theirs) is managing their image/rep in the organization.

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