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It still makes me super upset seeing people be afraid or downright ashamed for asking for help
It's OK to ask for help
It's OK to need help
It's OK to receive help
especially if it's dependent on your fucking survival.
personally, if it wasn't for the dozens of strangers that helped me over the years, Idk where I would be, even more so now
Aggressive reminder to never shame people for asking for help.
And PLEASE stop calling asking for help/assistance "e-begging".
Frankly, it's gotten to the point where it just carries negative connotations and does nothing but make the person asking for help feeling ashamed for asking for help.
You can either give or mind your damn business.
Yall should be commissioning @ljames if you want good Telegram stickers. They can take them from idea to finished product so fast, and adorably!
Being privileged and disadvantaged at the same time
It's really not that hard to understand that you can be disadvantaged and privileged at the same time.
I am disadvantaged by a disabling chronic illness that's taken much of my life away from me. But privileged by my partner and I being in a comfortable financial position, something many disabled people don't have.
I'm disadvantaged by being a woman, but privileged by being a white cis woman. I still experience oppression (sexism, patriarchy), but the oppression isn't as bad as that which a black trans woman will experience (sexism, patriarchy, transphobia and racism).
You don't lose anything by understanding your privilege. With some reflection and honesty, you can gain a better understanding of the intersections of different privileges and disadvantages, and how you can work harder, and be a better ally with others.
Seattle Area Friends
Job offering prioritizing queer folk and POC, $24 an hour, full time, medical, dental & vision benefits; monthly paid trainings; training allowance; paid leave; life insurance; retirement contribution.
it's a housing advacay agency, helping domestic abuse survivors find housing.
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