@autism101 @actuallyautistic phpne calls aren't just stressful, they're downright inconvenient, you need both parties to be available at the same time, and you need both in a quiet place, and where the sound won't annoy others around. not only that, if you miss it, you get a voice message that has all the downsides of a phone call. sure phone calls are nice if you're having an actual discussion over a long time, but anything less than that should just be a text or an email