Sexual Pred on Masto🚨
🚨 Y’all watch out for this actual Rapist or Rapist fan boy, doesn’t matter to me if he’s really David Bond or just a fan of David Bond. He’s wanted for targeting WoC and may be using a WoC avi to follow you. BE CAREFUL!
Sex Pred on Masto 🚨
So I got 2 follow requests @ the same time: Rapist David Bond/QXDC, and would u look at that? QXDC also FOLLOWS infamous Rapist and known Racist David Bond 🤔. Weird, they also follow quite a few Anarchist instances even tho their feed is pretty 🥶 🍑. I’m sure it’s just a coincidence. Jk it’s a rapist Gab infiltrator.
Serial harasser warning/ instance block recommendation
Fascists from Gab are now setting up their own Fedi servers in order to harass marginalized people. This one is a known rapist and his instance is freevoice.space
Thx to @denikombucha for finding this
I want a romantic partner who is a man (or masc nb), but most men are still emotionally boys, including myself sometimes tbh. I want someone who's willing to make the effort to understand me, even when I'm having a bad day and having a hard time vocalizing what's going on in my head and heart. It's easier for me to connect with women, because we tend to understand each other better, but I'm not a woman, nor am I attracted romantically to women.
I keep catching myself thinking I need a boyfriend, and I stop, because it's not fair to bring someone new into this instability of my life right now, and probably not a good idea. And what I really need and want is a partner, some support, from a man or masc person. I need validation in the form of "I believe in what you're doing, let me help out." I miss romance, sex, and companionship, but I need someone willing to throw themselves into this crazy adventure and help even when it's not fun.
That performance = ability = self-worth equation is what gets me every time. Low self-esteem and fear of failure that has in the past turned into a self-fulfilling prophecy, because failure to finish is failure. At some point I need to remind myself that my self-worth is not my performance, that I have intrinsic worth as a human being. I just wish I had more external validation, because my internal critic is a relentless arsehole.
I'm a comp sci prof, gaymer nerd, nature lover, bibliophile, and writer, among other things.
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