If you're reading this, I hope you have a good day today, whoever you are.

Mental health 

i was afraid i lost this image forever from knzk shutting down, but it's back baby

How bad has today been? I just compulsively tried to check Facebook, even though I've been off Facebook for two months now.

hot yoga, except instead of yoga its gaming and instead of hot there are three ACs cooling the room to meat locker temperature

I dont know any cute cishet boys ruin everything

Sexual Pred on Masto🚨 

Sex Pred on Masto 🚨 

Serial harasser warning/ instance block recommendation 

My birthday is in 2 weeks. I'm going to be 40 this year. Not where I expected to be at this point in my life.

I hope you all are having a better day than I am right now. Today has been hell and I've only been awake for 2 hours.

I want a romantic partner who is a man (or masc nb), but most men are still emotionally boys, including myself sometimes tbh. I want someone who's willing to make the effort to understand me, even when I'm having a bad day and having a hard time vocalizing what's going on in my head and heart. It's easier for me to connect with women, because we tend to understand each other better, but I'm not a woman, nor am I attracted romantically to women.

I keep catching myself thinking I need a boyfriend, and I stop, because it's not fair to bring someone new into this instability of my life right now, and probably not a good idea. And what I really need and want is a partner, some support, from a man or masc person. I need validation in the form of "I believe in what you're doing, let me help out." I miss romance, sex, and companionship, but I need someone willing to throw themselves into this crazy adventure and help even when it's not fun.

Free #OSINT / #OPSEC Tip:

One of the easiest ways I find all of someone’s accounts is that they tend to use the same phrases in their profile description bio sections.

It’s really easy to find you when you have the same Fight Club quote in every single one of your bios.

#privacy #security #infosec

That performance = ability = self-worth equation is what gets me every time. Low self-esteem and fear of failure that has in the past turned into a self-fulfilling prophecy, because failure to finish is failure. At some point I need to remind myself that my self-worth is not my performance, that I have intrinsic worth as a human being. I just wish I had more external validation, because my internal critic is a relentless arsehole.

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