I think largely independent of everything else going on. I honestly just want reassurance that given everything I had in my childhood I am actually doing relatively OK to be single childless with no career poor with the college degree that never went anywhere.
@Leucrotta I am single, childless, working support rather than programming per my education, and still probably owe my mother $10k for flunking out of pharmacy school.
Life happens. ;)
@bluestarultor thank you!